An important factor in a child's education is the parents' expertise for this "job". No one is born holding all the knowledge, but we can learn and understand some things from books or advice from qualified persons.
Among the commandments a parent should strictly follow are the following:

1. Do not underestimate your child - he can understand more than you think he does and if you make him believe you think poorly of him this might affect his development.

2. Don't use threat - a child loves a challenge and once threatened he may do what he wasn't suppose to just to see if he can escape the punishment.

3. Do not bribe your child - if you are trying to get him to learn (work, be quiet, etc.) for money (candy, TV time, etc.) he will fail to understand the importance of learning, all he will get from this is the importance of money.

4. Do not make a small child promise something - small children can't understand the concept of promises so don't force them to lie and then punish them because they did.

5. Do not keep them on a short leash - to grow up normally children need some space, some freedom and room to make mistakes. Some of the biggest lessons we learn are from the mistakes we've made in the past.

6. Do not use big words or too many words when you are talking to your child - keep your ideas simple and concise so he can understand every thing you have to say.

7. Do not expect immediate and blind obedience - it is not recommended, a child needs to learn to think on his own not to follow orders.

8. Do not indulge him too much - he needs to experience the feelings of self-confidence and self-respect the rewards of a "job well done" offer.

9. Do not compromise when it comes to the rules of a game - the trick for a game to become educational is to have its initial rules respected.

10. Don't impose rules that don't go with the age of your child.

11. Do not try to inflict guilt - guilt is not an appropriate feeling for children, especially if they are little.

12. Don't give your child orders that you don't take seriously - your child will try to please you and giving him an order is drastic, and it becomes cruel if that order is a joke.

All these "commandments" are addressed first to the parent. But they are to be referred to by teachers and educators as well. Along with the parents, they will instill an attitude and strategy for the education and growth of the child, so that they can give him all the things he needs to properly develop emotional and physically.

Annette Lucas is a stay at home mom who has quit her factory job and will never look back. She believes we are given one chance to watch our children grow up. For most of us, the only choice is work from home. Annette is an independent broker with AmeriPlanUSA. For more information on her, please visit http://urltracker.biz/58163/740 or email her at wahm411@aol.com.

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